Metamorphosis

It's been less than a week since I've had my desk. It's a cramped space, almost comically so. The yolk-coloured chair backs onto the wardrobe, which you cannot open unless the chair is tucked in tightly beneath the desk. The power points are located a few small centimetres behind the tin filing cabinet and any attempt to plug in a charger is fraught with difficulty. Doing most things in my new room is difficult, but I'm overwhelmed by the novelty of having a bed spread or indeed, a bed without someone above me. I unpack my belongings and stick up drawings and a postcard from my friend, Peter:

"The world is a magical place, where people build ball houses or hostels, so that people meet one another. Your soul walks in beauty and I'm very grateful to have met you!"

Every other night, I return to the hostel to pick up another suitcase and lug it back to Canonbury on the 19 bus from Bloomsbury Square. I furtively hope that someone over there will care that I've gone, make mention of a kind of love or a loss, but I know that other things are going on. It becomes apparent that they're making plans for a special goodbye dinner for two other departing staff members, but it's not particularly clear if I'm invited. When I made mention of it, we stood around awkwardly and my disappointment was evident. None of us really knew what to say.

There were lots of reasons why I stayed for so long. The dominant reason was that I had a fear of missing out. I wanted to document everything and I knew those who stayed would not properly report back to me. There'd be changes and I'd lose a sense of the narrative, the characters would change on me. Increasingly, I'd find that I'd have less of an idea of what was going on anyway. Going from staff member to guest, I found that my friends really didn't confide in me anymore. Conversations seemed trivial, rarely extending beyond the most flimsy and superficial.

I later realised that it was actually me. In addition to my frequent depressive fits and temper tantrums, I had stopped confiding in people. I instinctively knew how they would respond to my most persistent anxieties, namely, the expense, the terrible sleep quality and the frequent bedlessness at weekends. Their sympathy would be so limited that I just couldn't say anything.at all. I, more than anyone, knew the terms of that life. I spent days and months escaping, as far as I could for as long as I could, generating digital content that would suggest the most aesthetically fantastical existence.

I may be loved, but will I ever feel that love? Probably not, no. Yet, Peter's postcard hangs in front of me, it's evidence claiming a warmth and a regard. He's not the first guest to say such things, but I have never been able accept it for whatever reason. It's simply not consistent with the narrative I have running through my head: I loved and I lost, they left and they forgot. You would never know how much I love by the amount of time I spend on my own, but I'm fine with the isolation now. I'm happy to render it all, now that I'm here alone.